Perrin Elisha – The Commitment And Marriage Course
Strengthen your relationship for the long haul
Learn from licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst: Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.
Psychologist, author and founder of Depth Therapy and Relationships ReWired
Discover the science-based, heart-centered Relationship Map that takes you from loneliness, heartbreak, fear or divorce… to the confidence and clarity to succeed in love.
Here’s The Great News
I can teach you EASY, DAILY PRACTICES that replace mindlessness with treasures for your treasure chest.
Think about it, relationships are the most important and likely most complex area of life and yet we receive NO education about how they work or how to prepare for one.
But here’s the really great news. Once you discover the science-based principles of bonding, then you can approach relationships with a real map.
With this new map, you’ll no longer be wandering aimlessly around in the dark; and you can go forward with the peace that you know what will strengthen your bond, and simple behaviors to avoid that inadvertently diminish your bond!
That’s why I created The Marriage and Commitment Course, the first online, experiential course that will guide you through fighting fairly, sharing your wounds with grace, using any rupture as a chance to strengthen your love, how to avoid your own potential to skew your perceptions (confirmation bias).
My promise to you is that you will get the clarity and confidence to navigate your long term love with grace, skill and wisdom.
By the end of this course, you will feel confident in knowing that you can have a life in which solid, secure, creative relationships are the foundation and in abundance.
What You’ll Learn In The Commitment And Marriage Course
In this program you will:
- Develop the skills to manage your own emotional life, replacing confusion, shame, guilt and fear with understanding, responsibility and compassion
- Discover how to clarify and strengthen your identity and self respect.
- Discover an approach to the masculine and feminine principles in any relationship
- Understand what you need to know about Attachment Theory, your attachment style, and how to use an understanding of attachment style to manage dating and loving.
- How to transform your past from an obstacle into a doorway to your ultimate relationship future
Here’s What You’ll Learn
- In this course you will develop your Relationship Map, like a map with topographic layers.
- You will lay the foundation with the research-based principles that govern emotional life and bonding.
- You will layer your individual history, needs and dreams onto this map in a way that is personal to you and to the person you choose to connect with.
- This map allows for you to heal what needs to be healed and enter into a bond that is set up to succeed!
Module 1: Two Minds
We explore the key to deepening a relationship into a long term, sturdy partnership. Moving from a dating relationship to commitment and attachment is a significant step, and many people get stuck or scared here! Gain mastery and confidence to know when you are ready for this step, and how to do it skillfully.
Here you will learn:
- Exercises to practice with yourself and/or a partner to strengthen the ability to talk about sensitive subjects
- The meaning of separations and reunions in partnership and how to handle them wisely
- The meaning of rupture and repair in partnership and how to honor them appropriately
- How to share your Sacred Wound and your partner’s Sacred Wound to create a Sacred Bond
Module 6: Two Minds and a Third Entity
In this session, we explore establishing the norms of a secure attachment. As a relationship progresses and deepens, its long term success depends upon the degree to which the norms of a secure attachment are established. We establish these norms in conflict and in times of ease, and thus ensure the ongoing growth along a healthy trajectory.
Here you will learn:
- What a secure bond feels like
- How to spot Confirmation bias and your templates skewing your experience
- Behaviors and exercises to strengthen the security of your bond
- Rules of Engagement for Marriage or Committed Partnership
- How conflict and difference can be used to strengthen, not weaken, your relationship
Included In The Course
- 11 Training Videos
Each module for the course has 3-5 short, easy to watch training videos that cover all of the material you need to master the content. - Exercises & Reflection Questions
Each session comes with 1-3 exercises to put your learning into action. These exercises are journaling or personal reflection, exercises to do with a partner or friend, and tracking exercises to strengthen your emotional muscles and insight capacity. - Downloadable Workbook
This workbook will guide you to complete your exercises and personal reflections to ensure that the learning is transformational and personal to you.
About Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.
Dr. Elisha is a psychologist and psychoanalyst – meaning that she has the most in-depth training available – to treat the whole of a personality, getting to the root of relational difficulties and healing one’s identity.
She has worked for more than two decades in mind-body integration and relational wellness for her patients in private practice: Depth Therapy. Through this work she has distilled a fundamental wisdom about the relational nature that underlies wellbeing and life satisfaction, and has helped thousands of people to heal their past wounds and manifest the future they deserve.
She is the author of The Conscious Body and has taught postgraduate courses for many years throughout Southern California. She currently lives and works in Aspen, Colorado with her family and extended family.
Her deep understanding of how attachment relationships shape our feelings about ourselves, the world, and our expectations about relationships can help YOU excel in intimate relationships.
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