Carlos Xuma – Alpha Masculinity

Alpha Masculinity – No More Mr. Nice Guy!

How To Be A Man In A Woman’s World

Revolutionary Rehab…

Here’s What You Get In This Program…

• It takes years and years of exposure to “real men” to learn by example – and it sometimes feels like what you THINK is manly doesn’t match what women or society or the media tells you. If you didn’t have a strong male role model in your life, you might feel that you’re handicapped and blocked from ever figuring out what being “manly” actually is. I’ve discovered what the SPECIFIC and EXACT traits that women think of as “manly” are, and how you can start to develop them all…
• Do you sometimes feel like your own sense of masculinity is like a hollow tree? At the first big wind, you’ll just “blow over”? I’ll explain the specific qualities that “fill in” your real foundation and masculine strength so that you don’t have to feel “hollow” and “phony” with women… You’ll be able to “walk the walk” without feeling like you have to put up a “false front” to anyone…
• You’ve probably heard that there are two kinds of guys out there – the “Nice Guy” and the “Jerk.” But even if the “Jerk” seems to get the women, and the “Nice Guy” finishes last, we know we don’t want to be either of them. In this program, I’ll explain how women see you, and how you achieve just the right balance of the right “Nice Guy” traits and change the “Jerk” ones so that you trigger IMMEDIATE attraction in women that they will not be able to resist… (Oh, and you never need to hurt anyone else’s feelings to get this kind of masculine attractiveness!)
• The secrets to controlling and managing your emotional state so that other people don’t send you into a “tailspin” when they say things that catch you off-guard…
• Guys everywhere want to know what the “right things” are to say to women, and we eventually learn that the “naturals” out there know what to say without planning it. The problem is how to let go of the “lines” and “routines” and just “be yourself.” I’ll show you how to stop worrying about “not knowing” what to say, and never feel scared that you’re going to “run out” of interesting things to talk about ever again…
• Disagreements and conflict are tough to handle if you’ve never been shown what to do. I’ll cover 33 in-depth strategies for handling ANYONE who’s foolish enough to become your enemy or give you a hard time – AND how to turn them into allies that will help you without them knowing…
• Do you feel like you hold back your personality to please people around you? Have you ever felt like you keep your personality on “mute” so that other people will like you and you won’t turn them off? Or you hide your personality just to meet their expectations? There’s a normal need to please – and there is an unhealthy and painful one that makes us slaves to what other people think and their opinions. I’ll give you dozens of real-life techniques for getting rid of these “anxious to please” behaviors so you can become your own man…
• A man wants to know he can take ACTION at the right time to make things happen – whether that’s approaching women or taking things forward with a woman. Sometimes we feel paralyzed in our ability to act because we don’t feel connected to our masculine POWER source. I’ll explain how to get off your “but” and do what you know you need to do…
• The 12 question simple exercise to recover your own history and sense of masculinity in your life…
• 11 questions that will expose your “combat style” and how you deal with conflicts in life – and show you how to modify your own “kung-fu” so that you’re more effective…
• Take this 11 question evaluation to discover how you’ve been nursing your own pain in your life and burying resentments that poison your ability to connect with women – and everyone – in your life…
• As men, we sometimes fall victim to distorted beliefs about our “value” in life. This 13 question quiz will expose your true feelings about your money, your work, and your attachment to possessions…
• One of the hardest things to do is to make a change in your life – and then to make it STICK. In this program, I’m going to reveal my universal simple 4-step change program that will help you FAST FORWARD past years of therapy and effort to make long-term changes in your life…
• The 12 parts to the “Nice Guy” script that we carry with us and use – without even realizing it…
• As a former “Nice Guy,” I discovered that a lot of the things I was doing weren’t so “nice.” One of the things I discovered was that I was always acting from a belief system that made me think “If what I’m doing isn’t working, I’ll just try harder.” If you’ve ever found yourself acting this way, and not getting the results you wanted, I’ll walk you through how you can drop the “try hard” act and just relax with people – and get ten times more results!
• The 4 “Distractions” – the four ways that guys try to feel valuable and win approval from women…
• The ONE primary source of Nice Guy behavior that immediately raises a Red Alert in a woman’s mind and puts you into the “Just Friends” bucket… Not only this, but how we get caught up in this trap in the first place – and how we turn it off instead of getting suckered into the trap…
• Ever find yourself hiding your flaws in the hope that this would make you more interesting and attractive to women? Then you need to know why this is the biggest mistake you can make when you’re talking with a woman, and how it ruins your success – and why she wants the OPPOSITE…
• Of all the exercises and “therapy” work I’ve done, this one simple practice was what gave me the ability to finally break free of my neediness and lack of emotional control around women. I’ll explain how it works and how you can implement it in your life in as little as 15 minutes…
• The deadly downward spiral of the “victim triangle” – the 4 ways we avoid “rocking” the boat in our lives and become scaredy cats, afraid to live our own lives…
• The 6 core traits of masculinity… and the 7 qualities of a healthy relationship that will not sabotage your sense of masculinity
• Men are taught that life is competitive, but competition leaves us feeling wounded and vulnerable – especially when you feel like you don’t know how to compete with other guys out there. Here’s how you can compete without having to risk your neck – or your reputation… and no one has to lose.
• The 5 ways that you find it difficult to get what you want from women – and from your life…
• The 27 Rules of the Recovering Nice Guy…
• The 20 Minute Life Mission exercise – for finding your true calling in life, and how you know when you are on your Path…
• How to effectively “read” people so that you surround yourself consistently with an “entourage” that supports you and makes you happy, including how to handle it when a friend – or someone you know and trust – betrays you…
• How to balance caution and risk in your life so that you always come out ahead and never miss opportunities…
• Guys always envy the man who everyone pays attention to and looks up to. Do you want to be “famous” and popular in your social circle – or even beyond? I’ll give you my 10 steps – my personal guide for becoming well-known and famous in any social circle…
• The 16 warning signs of the Nice Guy-itis – and the 13 indicators guys give away their “eager-to-please” behavior to others…
• Do you find yourself idealizing women and putting them on pedestals? We know that women are wonderful, but when we carry this belief too far we lose our self-control around hot women. How to finally get chicks off the pedestal so you can stop feeling intimidated by hot women. I’ll show you the 6 warning signs of “woman worship,” and explain how this puts you on the “cycle of destruction” in your relationships with women…
• The most important indication of masculinity in a man’s life is his level of power over himself and his world. I will teach you over 40 ways you can increase your feeling of power and control in your life, including tips on how to get other people to help you with your goals, how to increase respect and honor, how to be a self-made man, and much much more…
• How to overcome the difficult events in your life without losing emotional control – and come out ahead…
• Nice Guys hate to risk making people angry with them. How to use “teasing” humor effectively – Guys with this skill who can have a little fun with people always seem to bring out the best in people. I’ll show you how to “bust their chops” – and get away with it…
• The most confident guys that get the girl always seem to stand out from the rest. I’ll explain your step-by-step plan for you to stand out in a crowd…
• Guys are taught not to trust their “intuition…” I’ll show you how to tap into your “gut” instinct – and launch yourself ahead of the pack by using this rare gem of a skill…
• How you can cultivate and build your reputation and RESPECT in your social network for being a confident, stand-up guy – AND the 2 types of guys you want on your side – as well as the 2 kinds of guys you must not let into your social network at any costs!
• Have you ever managed to land an attractive girlfriend, but then you find yourself changing your behavior later on to make things “go smoothly”? Even when you KNOW you shouldn’t be doing it? I’ve devoted an entire 4-hour section of this program to showing you the path of handling your recovery from Nice Guy to Alpha Man with women…
• How to maintain the “Separation of Angel and State” – How to avoid “over-sharing” information with your girl that lowers her attraction for you…
• Have you ever had the experience of approaching a woman and her reacting with: “Are you kidding? Don’t bother” written on her face? If you’ve felt this, than you know how painful it can be, and emasculating. But what was it that she sensed from you that made her react to you that way without you even saying a word? I’ll explain these secret signals that guys give off that create this kind of shocking response from women…
• We live in a complicated social climate – where men work with women all day long, and we see confusing messages about the right and wrong way to behave around women. Should you be more sexual, or are you risking a lawsuit? Should you keep your masculinity hidden – and then become neutered…? I’ll explain how you handle the new social protocol…
• Have you had limited experience with a woman, and now you feel like you’re in a “catch-22” because you can’t get more experience because women can sense that you’re limited in experience? I’ll explain how you can break this vicious cycle and create “animal” magnetism with women that breaks this pattern of pain…
• As men, we think of ourselves as our physical bodies – but is that what women really equate with “masculinity”? I’ll show you the ways that guys are focused on the wrong symbols of manhood, and how your physical body can be used to express your masculinity the right way, without having to become a bodybuilder. In fact, you’ll learn why muscles are NOT what women are looking for in your physical presence…
• Often we think that being a “man” is about being rich, driving a nice car, and so on… I’ll teach you the 15 traits of the modern masculine man that women are looking for – and you won’t need to buy a new car or take out a loan to impress her…
• The 6 negative traits of the immature man that you must eliminate – what they are, how they look to women, and how to get rid of them so that she will respect you as an Alpha Man…
• The 2 life-and-death questions EVERY man must ask himself in life – and the earlier the better. If you get these two questions wrong, or you ask the wrong one first, you’ll probably continue to struggle with having women in your life… But once you learn what they are and how they work together, you’ll have the advantage over 90% of the men out there…
• The 3 stages of every man’s “rite of passage” that he must go through to let go of being a boy and become a MAN, along with a step-by-step detailed plan for learning how to use these 3 steps in your life…
• Take the 20 question quiz that will tell you whether you have lost your masculine focus for the “decoy” that a lot of guys mistake as manhood…
• The ONE life-defining question that will clear your mind of all distractions and crystallize your life purpose so that you can put the engine of your life into high gear…
• The 6 stages of an Alpha Man’s lifeline – and how to know when you’ve matured through all 6 to the final goal of being a mature man that women want and other men respect…
• Learn The 5 hidden signals of the “boy-man” – the guy that women avoid because he’s not quite grown up…
• The one key internal signal and feeling you must control and tame if you ever want to progress beyond the early stages of manhood, and to finally feel like you can stand up for yourself when you need to…
• How to avoid the “whipped dog syndrome” that many guys accidentally fall into – and salvage your dignity and pride before you make this horrible mistake in your relationship with a woman…
• The 3 Secret Keys of Alpha Masculinity – with examples, and how to take your masculinity to the next level by meeting the modern expectations for men – no more feeling like you’re just imitating an old movie, you can BE sophisticated…
• The 17 Elements of Chivalry to incorporate in your life and use to demonstrate your masculine power to women…
• The 22 Secret Beliefs of the Confident Man – when you learn these, you will have affirmations that completely explain the mind set and lifestyle of a powerful and attractive man…
• The 7 questions to ask yourself that will immediately clarify where you may have lost your direction or given up on your Alpha power in your life – and how to know when you’ve established the Alpha Rules in your life that will keep you on the path…
• The ONE reason most guys “wuss out” and give in to women – and how this immediately kills her attraction for you – and how you can avoid this panic situation so that she keeps her respect for you, and you can avoid losing women to your own fears…
• In the early part of getting to know a woman, guys make a very distinct mistake in their behavior that causes her to lose interest and disconnect from you – I’ll explain what this is and how you overcome it so that you never make this rookie mistake with women ever again…
• How modern society messes up your programming about what is “manly” and what is not, and how you’re made to feel guilty just for being a man. I’ll show you the ways that you can spot this negative influence, and never let it hurt your confidence with women again… (This is the one key element that will turn you from an average, struggling, needy guy into a “natural” with women…)
• Do you ever feel like you’re “hard wired” with some very faulty beliefs that sabotage you and trick you from the success you deserve with women? I believe that guys just need the chance to “reboot” their internal software so that they can break out of the bad programming and re-connect with their true sense of inner control and confidence. I’ll also give you very specific and simple exercises that obliterate those limiting beliefs from your life so that you can feel the freedom of being a real man…
• Have you ever tried to “put your foot down” with a woman only to have it backfire on you? You’ll learn why most guys don’t have the right understanding of how to set “boundaries” with women so that they are respected and not tested all the time. You’ll also learn the key difference between “rules” and “conditions” with women, and which one you need to set if you want to keep her attracted to you…
• Women are incredibly intuitive and effective at reading men’s signals – and there’s one signal that guys give off like an odor that tells her you’re not a mature man yet. I’ll teach you what it is, how it shows up in your life, and how to QUICKLY eliminate it from your behaviors so that she can see the best parts of you…
• Most of the growth to go from a boy to a man is simply replacing one behavior or program in your head with another. Most guys can do this quickly and with no struggle – IF they knew what these behaviors were. I’ll show you the common mental “viruses” – like the “Nice Guy Syndrome,” Fear of Approaching Women, Fear of Failure AND Success – and how to quickly replace them with the right kind of thinking…
• The one experience most men have never had in their lives, and how this one simple checkpoint has kept you from feeling fully alive in your own skin. I’ll also coach you through the steps to really break through this limitation, because – fortunately – there are simple methods to break out of these old patterns – AND without falling back into them later on…
• The 3 red flag “little boy” warning signals that immediately tell women that you are not ready or mature enough for her, and she can discover them in the first 90 seconds of a conversation – I’ll show you what they are and how to flush them out of your system…
• Most men know that women are not attracted to the “momma’s boy” type, but we don’t know how much is too much of a good relationship to have with our mom – AND how to talk about it with women so that it’s a positive instead of a negative. I’ll explain this problem COMPLETELY, and how you can wipe it right out. Most guys do this and without realizing that she’s getting the WRONG idea about him…
• My Secret Method to use so that you stop getting hung up on your mistakes and move on quickly to fixing them – no more feeling frustrated, or tripping over yourself again and again and again…
• Have you ever had a conversation with a woman that went into “emotional territory,” and you felt lost and out of control? The key to handling emotional conversations with women is to know how to express your feelings – and knowing that you should NEVER make this one critical mistake when a woman tries to play her emotional “wild card.” I’ll show you how to do both – handle your feelings the right way – every time, AND avoid that BIG mistake – AND I’ll even give you the specific words to say to her…
• Two things you must NEVER do in a stormy conversation with a woman if you want to make it out alive…
• 6 Essential Rules to make sure that YOU are the one in control of the sex and that YOU hold the key to your own sexual satisfaction with women. If you miss these rules, every relationship you have with a woman will short-circuit and leave you in intense pain…
• Arguing with women is like handling C4 explosives. Here’s how you can avoid the nerve-wracking and painful process of losing arguments with women – and stop getting into them in the first place! Plus, I’ll teach you the way to handle disagreements with the woman in your life so that you don’t have to eat your pride and feel humiliated, AND your woman will respect you for handling things the way she wants. I’ll even teach you the 3 ways to convince women to just “let it go…”
• The one thing you can NEVER do when you talk to a woman or you will immediately tell her you are an insecure guy that she should avoid. If you pull this emotional trigger on her during a heated conversation, you will double the damage…
• The 8 signals that you’re in the presence of a mature Alpha Man that you can feel comfortable learning from… And the one BIG mistake you make with your guy friends that creates resentment and negative relationships with women…
• Learn the secret of the Masculine Pyramid – the 4 essential qualities of full-grown men that you must develop. And how guys can easily slip up and flip these 4 switches OFF by showing the ugly side of their personality. These are the qualities that women are looking for first, and when she senses that you’ve got them, she’ll be bragging to her girlfriends and family about you…
• Why is it we have no problems approaching and talking to women we aren’t attracted to – but the second a hot woman enters the room, you lose your head and get stuck for words…? In my “How to be Cool” segment, as well as others, I’ll show you how to keep calm and cool with ANY woman you meet so that you can be consistent and effective in building attraction – and not lose her…
• One of the most unexplained and powerful modern masculine skills is being a “Renaissance Man.” Women LOVE this kind of guy, and the sophisticated kind of spell he casts on women. I’ll explain what you need to do to be this kind of guy for her…
• We know that women want a guy with purpose and drive in life, but what does this REALLY mean to her? And how does she know when you’ve got this “purpose and drive”? Well, I’ll explain the key traits she’s looking for, as well as how to to actually discover this fire and passion in your life
• How to control your ego from running crazy and driving away women – and your friends…
• 7 Methods to create more awareness and ‘presence’ in your life – and get out of your head…
• The 8 “Warrior Skills” for men – and I don’t mean how to fight hand-to-hand – this is how you become the warrior in your own life to overcome all obstacles and challenges that come your way…
• 32 Laws of Coolness – how to be, look, and feel cool – including my one simple trick to get people imitating you (like groupies) and letting you set their styles and trends…
• 5 Little-known Steps to create “do or die” motivation in your life so that you can take action when you need to…
• The 4 Key traits of the “Alpha Man” – and how these character traits will either communicate masculinity if you use them the right way, or wussy behavior if you use them the wrong way…
• The big mistake “nice guys” make when trying to build attraction and rapport with women – and chances are you’re making this error, too…
• My priceless strategy for taking a conversation BACK into attraction-building when you’ve made the mistake of starting off too “nice…
• The critical communication skill you need in relationships that will allow you to “see the future” and head off problems before they appear, or before your woman can make her own bad decision.
• How women “reverse engineer” decisions that you won’t find out about until it’s too late – and how you can intercept these decisions easily and quickly to avoid the nasty surprises down the road that catch you off guard and leave you feeling exposed and emotionally betrayed…
• My technique of “remembering future pain” to keep yourself from repeating mistakes with women and your relationships – and stop yourself from getting into a defensive posture where all you want to do is avoid the pain…
• How women know how good you’ll be in bed – what clues is she reading that tell her how good a lover you will be? Find out in this segment…
• Should you be nice? A bad boy? Trying to please a woman? Learn how to balance the different roles that a woman expects from you so that you satisfy her every need, and when she feels these needs, you will be able to attract her on a skillful sexual level…
• How to expand your ability and capacity for sexual pleasure with women by “swinging the pendulum” and opening up your masculine energy… AND how to increase a woman’s sexual response to you so that she is aching to get physical with you – even while her clothes are still on – and you will raise the level of her intense erotic experience…
• How to get intuitively masterful with a woman so that you can give her the most incredible physical experience she’s ever had with a man…
• A simple 2-minute exercise that will discover and destroy the most damaging blockade to your sexual power as a man, and learn how to become fully present with a woman…
• The “3 places of expression” that tell everyone whether or not you’re getting laid, and how you can reverse engineer…
• How to know when NOT to use your “kino” or touching on a woman so that you don’t freak her out or sabotage your chances with her…
• The 2 CRITICAL elements of masculinity – what they are, and how women sense these from you, and how men can better develop them…
• How you really need to handle your “girl friends” so that you don’t destroy your chances to create physical attraction, and you establish your “wolf” desires…
• The three stages of masculine growth – the key milestones on your path to greater manhood – and how you know when you’ve reached each one…
• What fake vs. REAL masculinity actually is, and how we create an “unremarkable” life when we make this mistake and choose the wrong one…
• The essence of the no apology lifestyle – and how men fall into the trap of losing their Alpha Foundation…
• The Flinch and Backpedal – the two responses men have to women – how men react the wrong way to the presence of a woman – and the one response women want men to have around them…
• How the technique of “blurting” can help you overcome your shyness and get you past your fears of going silent in a conversation…
• The REAL reason that “pickup artist” techniques work – and it has nothing to do with your technique in any way…
• The one thing you can say to a woman that will guarantee a response from women in any bar or club that will drop her defenses, engage her in conversation, and demonstrate your authentic masculinity…
• What you should do in every conversation when you run out of things to say – and how saying this one thing can get you past your fear of the “uncomfortable silence” faster than learning any other technique or routine…
• How you create the best masculine role model for yourself – even if you haven’t had a father or strong male role model – and how you can get past all your childhood “issues” and finally let go of your negative past and escape “victim” thinking once and for all…
• How men put themselves into the “friend zone” and fail to reveal our true personality and strengths – and how to unleash your full masculine energy without feeling over-exposed or defenseless…
• The secret to the “Zan Method” and how he attracts women directly and NATURALLY with his simple spirited approach to creating attraction with women that build – the hidden difference between being a “pickup artist” and a “romance artist” – and guess which one attracts more women?
• What a “no excuse” lifestyle really means – and how to recognize when you’re violating this essential rule of masculinity – and the one “technique” that will stop you from making the same mistakes over and over again…
• The simple secret to true physical contact (“kino”) with women that ANY man can do to create rapport and connection in less than 30 seconds…
• And much MUCH more…!

Here Are The Contents:

1. Module 1: Introduction to Alpha Masculinity
2. Module 2: The Rules of Alpha Masculinity
3. Module 3: The Four Sides of the Alpha Pyramid, On Being an Alpha Man, No More Mr. Nice Guy
4. Module 4: Alpha Man Life Purpose, Alpha Man Life Lessons
5. Module 5: No More Mr. Nice Guy 2: Anxious to Please
6. Module 6: The Laws of Power for Alpha Men, How to Be Cool
7. Module 7: Alpha Rules of Conflict
8. Module 8: Samurai Alpha Man, Alpha Legend of the Alchemist, The Superior Alpha Man

Is This Program For You?

There are some guys who might need this information a bit more “urgently” than others, so I want to help you figure out whether or not this might be the most important program for you.

See if any of these questions listed here feel familiar to you. These are the questions guys ask me frequently about being a man that women are attracted to, and if you’ve ever found yourself asking one of these questions, this program will help you immensely.

While you’re reading through this list, I want you to ask yourself how much better you’d feel about your own life if these problems could be resolved for you.

• How would it impact your happiness?
• How would it increase your ability to attract women?
• How would you feel about yourself?

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